Tributes to Norene

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From Renee Owieczka:
“Like most of you, I lost a great friend.
Norene arrived into my life quite serendipitously. I had already started collecting her books, had seen a demo or two, joined this group, etc. Then one day, she was selling a book from her vast collection. I happily went to her home to pick up the book, and Norene, in her own classic way, invited me in. Into her home, her office, her world.
You see, at this time in my life, I was at odds with my time. By inviting me in, a conversation started. “What a great library you have!” Over 2500 books in her basement! “How do you find anything?” “I know where everything is” she says, with a twinkle in her eyes. I offered to help her organize just a little bit, because honestly, she wasn’t using 99% of them. And so began my thrice weekly visits to her home, to photograph her books for eventual organization.
This lasted throughout the summer of 2015. Then sometime in the fall of that year, she says: “Can you keep a secret? I have a few projects going on and one of them is the possibility of a book.” Norene had been busy putting a proposal together for the Brain Boosting Diet. This became a pivotal moment for both of us. Norene entrusted me with this new project, asking me to sit down and watch her put this book together, eventually involving me in her project.
Almost 4 years later, in January 2019, I pushed the send button to the final draft of the manuscript. During those 3.5 years, I learned everything thing about book writing, editing, publishing, but most importantly, I learned about myself. Norene believed in me, enough that some parts of the book, I wrote - she always said my fingers could type what her brain was thinking. What an honour that was, and still is, to know that my worth was important. (And I’m crying as I type this.)
The above(below) picture is truly the last time Norene went out, November 2018, at the B’nai Brith event in her honour, for her outstanding contribution to the community and for the reissue of Second Helpings, Please! through B’nai Brith. Norene always brought me along to some of her various events, and it was such a pleasure to accompany her. She literally walked through a wall of people, who parted to let her through. Always a hello, a smile, a laugh for everyone she saw. Always included me in those introductions.
2019 turned into a difficult year for Norene. The book was almost done. Between her CJN columns and her health, she knew she had to finish this book. I gave her my time and patience to help her, and was with her till her move to Montreal. It was my highest honour to do this.”

From Dana McCauley:

"Both before and after her death in February 2020, Norene Gilletz was recognized as a highly valuable contributor to the oeuvre of kosher food writing. While she was often called the ‘kosher Julia Child’ and the ‘queen of kosher cuisine’, Norene’s food writing often reached beyond this cultural demographic. For a generation of Canadians, Norene wrote recipe books that justified their investment in high-ticket appliance such as food processors and microwaves. In fact, forty years after first being published in Norene’s The Pleasures of your Food Processor, (later reprinted as The Food Processor Bible), her carrot cake recipe remains hugely popular with Canadians, producing thousands of references when entered into popular search engines.

As someone who loved to teach and to help others, Norene also wrote books that combined her culinary skills and interest health and wellness. The Colon Health Cookbook, The Low Iodine Cookbook and the Brain Boosting Diet are just three of her titles that reflect her attitude that food that is good for you should taste good, too.

As a prolific cookbook writer, food consultant and newspaper columnist, Norene deserved all the accolades used to describe her impact; but, to her friends she was so much more than her professional accomplishments. Always ready with a corny pun, Norene injected levity into every phone conversation or coffee date. She always had a story to share and was ready with truly thoughtful insight when asked for her advice and opinion. Her very favourite thing to do was to gather with friends for a meal. The last time I saw her was at our mutual friend Jocie Bussin’s beautiful lakefront home where we had a summer lunch and took a boat ride on lake Simcoe. It was exactly the kind of afternoon Norene loved: the food was all homemade and healthy and the conversation was steady and amiable.

Friendship and conversation were hallmarks of Norene’s writing and allowed her to connect deeply with her readers. Chatty and peppered with helpful hints that make you feel like she is talking directly to you, Norene’s books unite communities as diverse as Jews, food processor owners and thyroid cancer sufferers.

Many food writers set out to deliver wholly original or regionally accurate ethnic recipes. But for Norene, the best recipes are the ones people select when they want to bond over a delicious meal. Although her cooking skills and imagination were both abundant, Norene loved learning what her readers served around their tables. Then she would take their family favourite and turn them into a fully tested recipes that worked for every cook on the first try.

It was a winning formula that earned Norene celebrity status among her readers. I fondly recall going to the book launch for The Silver Platter: Simple to Spectacular (co-authored with Daniella Silver). If you’ve never been to a book launch party, you should know that for most Canadian cookbooks, a successful launch event will entice 10 to 20 of your friends and a handful of faithful readers to a bookstore where there will be a short talk and then a book signing. If the guests are lucky, there will be a cheese platter and plastic cups of white wine on offer.

Unless you are the beloved Norene Gilletz. When I arrived at Norene’s launch party with two friends in tow, we had to park around the block. The party was far too big for a bookstore and was held in a hall that was decorated like a posh bar mitzvah or a prom was to be held. Just like Norene herself, the event was fun (with photo stations, hundreds of pink balloons, a DJ, etc) and featured plenty of delicious food prepared from the book and served elegantly by waiters.

The room was packed and a never-ending line up of people waited patiently for Norene to autograph their books. From the time we arrived until we left, Norene was busy signing and exchanging stories with her readers. I had her attention only briefly that night, just long enough to tell her how great she looked and how excited I was to see her book literally become a best seller before my eyes.

Although she had no time to participate in the festivities herself, she was radiant and joyful amid a crowd who truly valued her work. And, that’s how I’m choosing to remember my dear friend. I can only hope that wherever Norene is now that the feelings she had that night are with her always."

Tributes to Norene
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